A Support Circle for Dads of Color

Fatherhood is powerful—but it shouldn’t be a solo journey. Figuring Out Fatherhood is a community-driven support group created specifically for dads of color who want connection, understanding, and real conversations about navigating parenting with confidence.

This group offers a space to share experiences, swap strategies, and support one another through the joys and challenges of raising children. Together, we’ll explore practical tools to make fatherhood easier—whether it’s balancing work and family, strengthening communication, managing stress, or creating meaningful moments with our kids.

More than a support group, Figuring Out Fatherhood is a collaborative circle where dads uplift dads and receive support from collaborating professionals. Build friendships, expand your network, and gain relatable, culturally grounded guidance from men who get it.

Because when fathers thrive, families and communities grow stronger.

Mentor: Etta Etta-Tawo | Click to read biography

Upcoming Session: January 7 - March 11

Day & Time: Wednesday, 5:30PM - 6:30PM

Location: Dayspace, 594 Columbia Road, Dorchester

Cost: $200 (10 seats — includes free childcare!)

Week 1 — Opening Circle: Who We Are as Fathers

• Introductions, personal stories, and fatherhood journeys

• What brought you here & what you hope to gain

• Identifying shared challenges and common strengths

• Setting community expectations and group culture

Week 2 — Rewriting the Narrative

• Representation of fathers of color in society and media

• Challenging stereotypes and reclaiming our own story

• How identity, culture, and lineage shape our parenting

• Crafting personal “Fatherhood Vision Statements”

Week 3 — Mental & Emotional Wellness for Dads*

• Stress, pressure, and the weight of expectations

• Safe space to discuss personal mental health experiences

• Tools for staying grounded, centered, and supported

• Overcoming the stigma of seeking help

Week 4 — Communication, Leadership & Love*

• How we communicate with partners, co-parents, and children

• Breaking generational patterns

• Showing love openly: redefining strength and vulnerability

• Building healthier, more connected relationships

Week 5 — Balancing Fatherhood, Work, and Personal Passions

• The realities of juggling multiple roles

• Strategies for time management and prioritizing self

• Navigating career demands as dads of color

• Making space for hobbies, goals, and rest

Week 6 — Discipline, Guidance & Raising Emotionally Healthy Kids

• Discipline vs. punishment: exploring alternatives

• Teaching emotional intelligence to our children

• Breaking cycles and setting new standards

• Modeling the behaviors we want to see

Week 7 — Money, Stability & Building Generational Wealth*

• Open conversation about finances, pressure, and planning

• Teaching kids about money

• Strategies for foundational financial wellness

• Leaving a legacy beyond material things

Week 8 — Community, Brotherhood & Support Systems

• Why dads need community too

• How to build a network that supports your growth

• Identifying mentors, role models, and trusted peers

• Ways the group can support each other beyond the 10 weeks

Week 9 — Joy, Fun & Creating Memorable Moments

• Bringing more joy into fatherhood

• What our kids actually remember—and what matters most

• Planning low-stress, meaningful experiences

• Celebrating our wins as fathers

Week 10 — Reflection, Celebration & Next Steps

• Sharing what's changed or improved over 10 weeks

• What each dad is committing to moving forward

• Planning ongoing meetups, group chats, or partnerships

• Closing circle to honor every father’s growth

* Featuring special guests